Nick Nicholas

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R.I.P. Peaches

On January 20, 2009, I had to have my loyal and loving companion
of 17 years put to sleep.  It was an agonizing decision because we
had so much history together, but he had end stage kidney failure
and I did not want him to suffer any further.  Peaches has been
cremated, and I want his ashes commingled with mine after I die.

Making History

This photo was taken on September 13, 2008 before I embarked on a 170 mile
walk from Jackson to Oxford in connection with the presidential debate taking
place on the 26th.  The walk was to take a Stand Against AIDS, and mirrored
James Meredith's 1966 Walk Against Fear from Oxford to Jackson.  Meredith
led us on our way to Oxford after speaking at a rally kicking off the walk.


Here's my new love, Grace. Of course she'll never be able to "replace" Peaches, but she is filling some of the hole in my heart Peaches left behind. She is 100% Burmese, Platinum variety, female. She is a wild woman and demands constant attention. When she is ready to play, she brings her favorite toy and drops it on my keyboard. "Time to play!" she's saying, and she's quite vocal about it if I fail to respond in the appropriate manner!



Introduction
Professional Life
News Clips
Conferences
Publications and Other Writings
Personal Interests
Hot Links


Introduction

Welcome to my personal home page.

I have been an Internet user since 1992 and active in the Internet community since 1996. This personal history is documented below. In addition, I have included some of the web pages I authored, as well as some of the papers I wrote when I was pursuing an academic career.

Here is a chronology of where I've lived, worked and studied over the past five decades:

CHRONOLOGY:
 
1958-1959 Starkville, MS
1959-1976 Jackson, MS
1976-1978 Nashville, TN
1978-1979 Leeds, England
1979-1980 Nashville, TN
1980           Philadelphia, PA
1980-1988 New York, NY
1988-1992 Seattle, WA
1992-2002 San Francisco, CA
2002-2004 Jackson, MS
2004-2007 San Mateo, CA
2007-?       Jackson, MS

 

This page is not meant to be a comprehensive autobiography, but, rather, an introduction of myself and some of my interests. 

One thread that has run through my life, both personally and professionally, is activism devoted to the public interest. If I see something that needs to be done, I do not wait for someone else to do it. I step up and take the lead in finding solutions. At Vanderbilt University, when the chair of the drama department refused to present musicals, deeming them not to be "real theatre" I founded the Vanderbilt University Musical Theater Troupe and produced its first show, "Hello Dolly!"

I became a paralegal in the formative years of that profession. I believed strongly that paralegals had a unique opportunity to bring about an end to lawyers' monopoly on the practice of law and in so doing benefit the public interest. In particular, I felt that paralegals, not the American Bar Association, should accredit paralegal training programs.

In 1996 when I was charged with creating the abuse and security department at one of the earliest ISPs, I saw that spam was a tremendous problem which would grow quickly if not brought under control. For the next 11 years I was a professional anti-spam activist. From managing the abuse department of an ISP spanning nine states, to executive director of the leading provider of education, tools and resources for fighting spam (an organization recognized as one of ten web sites that will change the world at the 2000 World Economic Forum), to chief privacy officer of an email services firm, to knowledge engineer at an email best practices certification firm, I have seen the spam issue from a variety of positions.

For more than 30 years people have been telling me I should write a book and now I am! A recently written chapter is MAPS v. Gordon Fecyk: An Overview. Another chapter is DMA to Internet: SHUT UP AND EAT YOUR SPAM.

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Who Says You Can't Go Home Again (and Again)?
2008-present

Me with my two brothers, Robert and Chandler, hearing no evil, speaking no evil, seeing no evil!

In late 2006 signs of HIV disease began manifesting itself. My doctors and employers saw some of the signs suggesting the development of the disease to a more advanced stage, but no one drew the pieces together to expose a more accurate picture of what was happening. In late 2007 the disease had developed to where the signs no longer could be ignored. I had an advanced case of AIDS.

At that point I had to return to my home town so my family could nurse me back to health. I am much better now. However, in the process, I became acutely aware of a huge need for services for those living with HIV disease in MS. With improving health, my activist streak reasserted itself and I began seeking ways I could bring about the changes which were direly needed. I am the founder and co-faciliator of a support group for those living with HIV/AIDS. I am a member of the Community Advisory Board of the Medical Monitoring Project.  In addition, I am a member of the Mississippi State Department of Health's HIV Care & Services Council as well as a certified HIV/STD Prevention Instructor and Counselor.

I was one of the 25% of those who were unaware of their HIV status when I was carried off to the emergency room in the back of an ambulance in December 2007. I intend to do everything possible to see that others do not face the same fate. In furtherance of that goal, I have returned to school to begin work on a bachelor's degree in social work at Jackson State University, and following that with a dual master's degree in social work and in public health majoring in HIV/AIDS. The world has not heard the last of me yet. I intend to die of old age, not AIDS, having lived a life of public service.

 

Here I am with my brothers (from left to right), me, Robert, and Chandler, hearing, speaking and seeing evil as usual!


Professional Life



Knowledge Engineer, Habeas, Inc.
2005-2007

From 2005 to 2007 I was the Knowledge Engineer with Habeas, Inc. located in Mountain View, CA. My primary responsibilities were to create, develop and manage knowledge-bases, customer-facing as well as internal knowledge-bases for use by customer service, technical support and account management staff. I also provided second tier support to the front- line support staff. In addition, I was the company's designated subject matter expert on email marketing regulations and best practices, as well as emerging technologies such as sender authentication protocols. I was called upon to provide consulting services to our customers in this area. I also was involved to some extent with most other teams in the company. Some of my work involved providing support for the sales team, and I played a small role in the development of Habeas products and services by working with the marketing group and the engineering team. I wrote whitepapers and developed and presented webinars. I also did special research projects for members of the Habeas executive team.

 


Director of Deliverability, AcquireWeb Inc.
2004-2005

As AcquireWeb's Director of Deliverability, I established and maintained key business and technology relationships with major Internet service providers and email providers in order to ensure delivery of customers’ email messages. In addition, I established relationships with spam-filtering technology providers, anti-spam organizations, email service provider coalitions and privacy organizations. I also created and executed processes to facilitate the reliable delivery of email and developed processes to track, monitor, and analyze delivery statistics in order to provide customers with key metrics for improving deliverability. I researched and documented best practices centered around spam-related regulation and legal compliance as well as emerging messaging standards.

 


The Prodigal Son Returns Home
2002-2004

Never say never, because you will always be forced to eat your words eventually.  When I graduated from Jim Hill High School in 1976, I left Jackson with 3 primary objectives: Go to interesting places, meet interesting people and do interesting things. I vowed I would never return to Missississippi except to visit my family.

What could be more interesting, where could I find more interesting people, where could I find more interesting things to do than in New York City?  So I took off for one of the biggest cities of them all:  New York, New York! Through a circuitous route over the course of two decades, I ended up in San Francisco in time to ride the wave of the dot-com boom.  When the boom turned into a bust, I was laid off like tens of thousands of others.  Unable to find work in the Bay Area, and having exhausted my savings and unemployment benefits, I returned to my home town.  While in Mississippi, I took up a career I had abandoned two decades previously by working as a paralegal at Forman Perry Watkins Krutz & Tardy.

In addition to my paralegal work, I operated a small technology consulting practice on the side: In the Nick of Time IT Consulting Services.  I provided information technology consulting, implementation and training throughout the state of Mississippi. I also became a Sun Certified System Administrator for the Solaris 8 Operating Environment. A recent project involved updating the web site of the Department of Pharmacology and Toxicology at the University of Mississippi Medical Center, and my work can be reviewed here.


Chief Privacy Officer, ReturnPath Inc.
2000-2002

As Chief Privacy Officer, I was responsible for overseeing corporate-wide compliance with policies and procedures governing the security, confidentiality and quality of consumer information, as well as reviewing and updating operations and business practices to champion the cause of consumer privacy and fair information practices within the company.  I also ensured that Return Path's privacy policies and practices continued to be fully compliant with all federal and state regulations pertaining to the protection of users' personal information.

 


 Executive Director, Mail Abuse Prevention System LLC
1999-2000

I joined Mail Abuse Prevention System LLC (MAPS) in February 1999 as its Executive Director. MAPS is the leading provider of education, tools and resources for controlling electronic mail abuse, and was named as one of Ten Web Sites That Will Change the World (see http://news.bbc.co.uk/hi/english/business/newsid_621000/621850.stm) during my tenure. Prior to joining MAPS, I created and developed the network abuse and security department at Pacific Bell Internet Services in late 1996, and then developed and managed the network abuse department at SBC Internet Services in mid-1997 when the two parent corporations merged. I also developed and managed the company's Safety 'Net program, and have spoken and written on the topics of electronic commerce, network and e-mail abuse, privacy, parenting and the Internet, and consumer fraud and protection on the Internet.

I served as a member of the Advisory Board of SpamCon Foundation, a member of the board of directors of the Forum for Responsible and Ethical E-mail (FREE), and a member of the Whitehat, Inc. Citizens Advisory Board.

I have previously held senior management positions at not-for-profit organizations. From 1990 to 1991 I was chief executive officer of the committee charged with administrative and financial oversight of student publications at the University of Washington, which included a daily newspaper, the yearbook, and the annual campus directory. From 1984 to 1987 I was the president of a not-for-profit organization representing the professional interests of paralegals and legal assistants in the New York City metropolitan area.

 


 

Regional Policy Manager, SBC Internet Services
(The Men in Black)
1996-1999

The image to the left is a digital composite from three originals, in which the same hat and glasses were passed from one of us to the other. Digital magic courtesy of Mister 3D, Pan Dimensional Telecom God. Don't miss his hilarious story about his adventure with the Men in Black and the Mind's Eye Man..

Second most famous ISP abuse team (following Afterburner and His Evil Minions at RCN). L-R: Jason Barr (now an attorney in private practice), Nick Nicholas (the original Network Fascist Bully Boy), and Dennis Dayman (now Director of Deliverability with StrongMail Systems, Inc.).

Technical Analyst, Pacific Bell Internet Services
1996

For nine months prior to being selected to create the Pacific Bell Internet Services Policy Department, I worked in the Technical Support Center.  Due to the high stress that comes with such work, technical support personnel typically burn out after eight months. Listen to this recording of a Customer From Hell and you'll understand what technical support staff must deal with on a daily basis.


News Clips

Following eleven years as an anti-spam activist, I became an HIV/AIDS activist when my health improved.  Already I've begun making a public impact as demonstrated in this clip from the local news station in Greenwood, MS during the walk from Jackson to Oxford:

http://www.magnoliaclips.com/webclips/WABG_09-18-2008_0600PM_aids.wmv

I'm also a pallbearer in a mock funeral we held in the town square in Oxford on the day of the presidential debate:

http://campaigntoendaids.blip.tv/#1304955

Links to my press mentions are below.  I even have a hate page devoted to MAPS which features a doctored photo of me:  http://www.dotcomeon.com.  This site is not to be missed.  I never knew I was part of an international conspiracy!  Unfortunately, some of the links below are either no longer valid or have been moved to archives which require a fee for viewing.  DMNews graciously allowed me to reprint two articles in text format.


Conferences

Conferences where I have spoken are listed below.  The FTC conference was especially fun because the proceedings were broadcast on C-SPAN.  I have now officially had my fifteen minutes of fame and I am relieved that it was comparatively banal.  Another highlight was the time I was on a panel moderated by Professor Lawrence Lessig, even though there was one moment during the session when I felt like a hapless student paralyzed by the glare of Professor Kingsfield from The Paper Chase.  This was not Professor Lessig's intent; I simply did not understand a question he posed to me.

FTC SpamForum
http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/workshops/spam/agenda.htm
April 30, 2003
Washington, DC
Panel Session:  Open Relays/Open Proxies/FormMail Scripts
Moderator: Renard Francois. Panelists: Dr. Bill Hancock, Michael Rathbun, Matt Sergeant, Brad Patton, Adam Brower, Nick Nicholas

Fall ISPCON 2001
http://www.ispcon.com
October 10, 2001
Las Vegas, Nevada
Panel Session: Privacy: What ISPs Need to Know
Moderator:  Jason Catlett.  Panelists:  Ray Everett-Church, Nick Nicholas
http://www.ispcon.com/fall2001/attend-sessionlist.asp?CS_ID=193

Third Annual Conference on Nonprofits and Technology:  Succeeding as a Dot Org
http://search.compasspoint.org/conferences/agenda.lasso?conf=TECH01
May 8, 2001
San Jose, California
Panel Session: Privacy at Risk in the Nonprofit Sector
Moderator: Allen Hunt-Badiner. Panelists: Deidre Mulligan, Peter Neumann, Nick Nicholas
http://search.compasspoint.org/wsnew/workshop_detail.lasso?number=3B&program=TECH01&conf=TECH01&conference=yes

CPSR Activists Roundtable
March 4, 2001
Waltham, Massachusetts
Presentation:  Latest Developments in Email Marketing "Self" Regulation
Summary report in CPSR PING! 1:4, p. 12. May, 2001.

Drawing the Blinds:  Reconstructing Privacy in the Information Age
October 12, 2000
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Panel Session:  Constructing Privacy -- From Protocols to Interface
Moderator: Nathan Borenstein. Panelists: Ashok Khosla, David Marvit, Peter Neumann, Nick Nicholas
http://www.cpsr.org/publications/newsletters/issues/2000/Fall2000/panel3.html

Spam Summit 2000
May 4-5, 2000
Washington, DC
Panel Session: Using Technology to Solve the Spam Problem
Moderator: Paul Hoffman. Panelists: Eric Allman, Julian Haight, Tim Pozar, Nick Nicholas
Panel Session: Spam Showdown: East Code versus West Code
Moderator: Lawrence Lessig. Panelists: Rick White, Deidre Mulligan, Ray Everett-Church, Jason Catlett, Nick Nicholas
Presentation: RBL Use and Practices

ISP/F IV
November 13, 1999
New Orleans, Louisiana
Tutorial: Abuse Boot Camp
Instructors: John Levine, JD Falk, Nick Nicholas

Spam Roundtable III
November 11, 1999
Santa Barbara, California
Panel Session: Latest Technology Countermeasures in the Ongoing War
Moderator: John Levine. Panelists: Simson Garfinkel, Afterburner, Nick Nicholas

Fall ISPCON 1999
October 26, 1999
San Jose, California
Panel Session: Three Approaches to the Spam Problem
Moderator: Brad Templeton. Panelists: Ray Everett-Church, Tim Pozar, Nick Nicholas

Email Abuse Roundtable 3
October 6, 1999
Falls Church, Virginia
Presentation: MAPS Update

Email Abuse Roundtable 2
March 13, 1999
San Diego, California
Presentation: Recent Developments at MAPS


Publications and Other Writings


Personal Interests

I have been fascinated with computers since my first encounter with them in 1971. Mississippi College sponsored a program which introduced Jackson junior high and high school students to computer science, and I took full advantage of the opportunities provided through this program. At the same time, however, I also had a very strong interest in creative writing which I pursued with equal zeal.

I managed to merge these interests with my professional life as a paralegal from 1980 to 1988. I recognized very early that computers could be extremely effective as a tool for managing the practice of law more efficiently, and I became one of the earliest evangelists and practitioners of law office automation. I continued working in law firm help desks until I became part of the technical support staff at Pacific Bell Internet Services in 1996.

I now administer a small home network consisting of a Pentium II running Ubuntu which operates as a DNS server, a Sun Ultra 10 running Solaris 10 which operates as an email server, a custom-built Intel Quad Core system running Debian Linux which operates as a web server, a custom-built dual processor Pentium III system on which I run OpenSolaris, and a Dell XPS 210 running Windows XP which I use as my general all-purpose system.

I especially enjoy traveling and wilderness camping, and I am also an avid photographer. Some time in the near future I hope to make my photography available in online galleries, but these three will have to do for now. The photo on the top left was taken in Death Valley National Park, the photo on the bottom left was taken in the eastern Sierra Mountains, and the photo on the right was taken in Yosemite National Park.

 

Here are two additional photos of me at "work" as a photographer:

 

 

I am also very interested in personal fitness, and I go to the gym at least three days per week.

However, nothing is more important to me than my family and friends, so I spend as much time with them as possible.

I also have a weakness for opera (not the browser), and Puccini is my favorite composer. One of my favorite arias is for tenors and comes from Turandot. I've had the good fortune to see all three of the famous touring tenors -- Pavarotti, Domingo and Carreras. Of the three, I think Domingo is the best, but I'll let you decide for yourself as each one has a go at Nessun Dorma below. First, here's Placido Domingo:

And here's Luciano Pavarroti:

Then here's Jose Carerras:

Now all three tenors take a shot:

Some folks think Andrea Bocelli is the best tenor around, but I thought his rendition of Nessun Dorma was a bit weak in comparison with the others:

Now listen to this incredible amateur named Paul Potts who won "Britain's Got Talent" in 2007:

Not bad for a cell phone salesman, eh? Potts did a rendition of another favorite of mine, Con Te Partiro:

Now listen to Andrea Bocelli:

Much as I like Potts, there's no arguing that Bocelli does a better job with this piece.


HOT LINKS

Here are links to causes I support or resources for additional information about AIDS:

Southern AIDS Coalition

Grace House - gracehousems.org

Mississippi Rainbow Alliance - msrainbowalliance.com

Mississippi Hearts Against AIDS - mississippihearts.org

Unity Mississippi - unityms.org

Equality Mississippi - equality.ms

South Mississippi AIDS Task Force - smatf.org

My Brother's Keeper - mbk-inc.org

Building Bridges, Inc. - bbims.org

Community Impact, Inc. - communityimpactinc.org

Minority AIDS Project

Black AIDS Institute - blackaids.org

National Association of People With AIDS - napwa.org

AIDS Alabama - aidsalabama.org

San Francisco AIDS Foundation - sfaf.org

Being Alive - beingalivela.org

Gay Men's Health Crisis - gmhc.org

shanti.org

Phoenix Rising - HIV/AIDS Re-entry Project

Coalition for Positive Sexuality - positive.org

Treatment Action Group

Campaign to End Aids - c2ea.org

AIDS Free World - aids-freeworld.org

National AIDS Strategy

Stop AIDS Project - stopaids.org

AIDS Treatment News - aids.org AIDS Treatment News

AIDS Education Global Information System (AEGIS) - aegis.com

Project Inform - projectinform.org

The Body - thebody.com

UCSF HIV Insite - hivinsite.ucsf.edu

Kaiser Family Foundation HIV/AIDS Information - kff.org

aidsmeds.com

National Aids Treatment Advocacy Project - natap.org

American Foundation for AIDS Research - amfar.org

Healing Well - healingwell.com

AIDS TREATMENT DATA NETWORK

Cells Alive! - HIV

AIDS Survival Project - aidssurvivalproject.org

Test Positive Awareness Network - tpan.com

Community HIV/AIDS Mobilization Project - champnetwork.org

ACT UP - actupny.org

Foundation for Integrative AIDS Research - fiar.us

aids.gov

AIDS Info - aidsinfo.nih.gov

hivguidelines.org

clinicaltrials.gov

Centers for Disease Control: HIV - cdc.gov/hiv

National HIV and STD Testing Resources - hivtest.org

National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases - NIAID

National Prevention Information Network

UNAIDS - unaids.org

International AIDS Society--USA - iasusa.org

AIDS Healthcare Foundation

National Alliance of State and Territorial AIDS Directors - nastad.org

Diffusion of Effective Behavioral Interventions - effectiveinterventions.org

International Rectal Microbicides Advocates - rectalmicrobicides.org

The AIDS Memorial Quilt - aidsquilt.org

GLBT National Health Center - glnh.org

National Gay and Lesbian Task Force - thetaskforce.org

Human Rights Campaign - hrc.org

Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation - glaad.org

Americal Civil Liberties Union - aclu.org

lambda.org

Queer Resources Directory - qrd.org

Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays - pflag.org


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For you more visually-oriented folks, Randy produces a weekly video of a story from "This Is True!" Here's a particularly hilarious sample. Be sure to watch all of it because at the end Randy tells you how to get out of hell FREE!


 

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HIV prevalence

Two final pictures.
The graphic above shows the incidence of new HIV cases in the US.
The picture below is me in a more contemplative mood.

Me in a more contemplative mood